Uranus Transiting the 12th House

A friend of mine, who is Taurus Rising, posted this story on Facebook. She has recently met a new love interest while going through the pain of divorce.

I want to share it as the perfect example of what ALL Taurus Sun Signs are going through right now and anyone else who might be late Aries Rising or Tuarus Rising. It IS the end of things. It is NOT by your choice. But Uranus in the 12th House is a SUBCONSCIOUS need for FREEDOM… even from the very person you love. What happens is your partner (your mirror) senses you are moving towards freedom and they act out in ways that further your desire for freedom. And the vicious cycle begins. This story perfectly describes this Transit. Bless all you Tauruses… I will have this Transit in about 3 years time;)

 

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I spent 5 years hurting a good woman by staying with her but never fully choosing her.

I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.

Unfortunately, as happens with many young couples, our ignorance of how to do love well quickly created stressful challenges in our relationship. Before long, once my early morning blissful reverie gave way to the strained, immature ways of our everyday life together, I would often wonder if there was another woman out there who was easier to love, and who could love me better.

As the months passed and that thought reverberated more and more through my head, I chose her less and less. Every day, for five years, I chose her a little less.

I stayed with her. I just stopped choosing her. We both suffered.

Choosing her would have meant focusing every day on the gifts she was bringing into my life that I could be grateful for: her laughter, beauty, sensuality, playfulness, companionship, and so … much … more.

Sadly, I often found it nearly impossible to embrace – or even see – what was so wildly wonderful about her.

I was too focused on the anger, insecurities, demands, and other aspects of her strong personality that grated on me. The more I focused on her worst, the more I saw of it, and the more I mirrored it back to her by offering my own worst behavior. Naturally, this only magnified the strain on our relationship … which still made me choose her even less.

Thus did our nasty death spiral play itself out over five years.

She fought hard to make me choose her. That’s a fool’s task. You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.
To be fair, she didn’t fully choose me, either. The rage-fueled invective she often hurled at me was evidence enough of that.
I realize now, however, that she was often angry because she didn’t feel safe with me. She felt me not choosing her every day, in my words and my actions, and she was afraid I would abandon her.

Actually, I did abandon her.

By not fully choosing her every day for five years, by focusing on what bothered me rather than what I adored about her, I deserted her.

Like a precious fragrant flower I brought proudly into my home but then failed to water, I left her alone in countless ways to wither in the dry hot heat of our intimate relationship.

I’ll never not choose another woman I love again.

It’s torture for everyone.

If you’re in relationship, I invite you to ask yourself this question:
“Why am I choosing my partner today?”

If you can’t find a satisfying answer, dig deeper and find one. It could be as simple as noticing that in your deepest heart’s truth, “I just do.”

If you can’t find it today, ask yourself again tomorrow. We all have disconnected days.

But if too many days go by and you just can’t connect with why you’re choosing your partner, and your relationship is rife with stress, let them go. Create the opening for another human being to show up and see them with fresh eyes and a yearning heart that will enthusiastically choose them every day.

Your loved one deserves to be enthusiastically chosen. Every day.
You do, too.

Choose wisely.

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  2 comments for “Uranus Transiting the 12th House

  1. August 28, 2017 at 10:48 pm

    I’m glad I read this. I really feel for that woman. I know exactly how she feels because I’ve been in that position, for five+ years. I’m about to have a Uranus transit in the 12th coming next May 2018 and just finishing my Saturn Return in the 7th. Not sure what to expect in 2018 to be honest.

    • August 28, 2017 at 11:41 pm

      Thank you for commenting, Atalanta:) What is your Sun Sign? I read charts in a very simplified way as all of 5D is simple compared to the vanity of 3D and its weighty ‘education’ from outside sources. I, too, will have Uranus Transiting my 12th House come Mar, 2018. Though I am not in a relationship. And Uranus will be in my 7th House by Sun Sign. Should be a ride!

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